http://bible.com/1/pro.27.5-6.kjv Open rebuke is better than secret LOVE.
Faithful are the wounds of a friend; but the kisses of an enemy are deceitful.
31 The ear that listens to life-giving reproof will dwell among the wise.
32 Whoever ignores instruction despises himself, but he who listens to reproof gains intelligence. #Bible http://mydailybible.org/dv/esv/2014-10-18.htm